Physical Abuse...

Physical abuse as you know is even more deadly than mental abuse. Yet, so often Women and children go through this abuse every day.

We’ve discuss Mental Abuse in an earlier writing. I do hope and trust it has enlightened you in some Way, Shape or Form.

I am aware of the abuse of Children, as well as the abuse that happens between Gay couples, but today I wish to focus on the abuse within a relationship between a man and a woman.

It has been stated that, just before you die your whole life flashes before you, yet some never saw that flash, because their lives ended so abruptly.

Remember this; it’s very hard to keep physical abuse a secret when it’s written over your body.

Yet so many try to cover it up with lies, by making excuses as to what happened to them.

Physical abuse is abuse involving contact intended to cause feelings of intimidation, injury, or other physical suffering or bodily harm.

Forms of physical abuse Striking, Punching, Pushing, pulling Slapping Whipping, Striking with an object and so many other degrading aggressive actions. If I ask which is more detrimental? Mental abuse or Physical abuses what would be your answer? Whatever your answer is, both could end up in bodily harm and or physical death.

What IF…..
You only had hours to live? What exactly would you do? Would you go visit Family, Friends, Give your Children the biggest hugs ever? Thinking on these questions, how far would you go to protect your own life?

There are so many women that are being abused every single day. They tell themselves, He loves me, He cares about me, he’s just going through something right now, He want do it again.

There is a word out there and it is called Delusion.

Delusion: A persistent false belief held in the face…of strong contradictory evidence… Delusion is an unshakable belief in something untrue. These irrational beliefs defy normal .

So many Women are deformed for life. Some will never taste or smell food again, or anything else, because of broken noses and or slit tongues from being hit by an abusive husband or live in mate.

Some will never see again because of being battered in their faces.

When I was younger I recall a woman on T.V. saying she was told by her Doctor, that she may never taste food again, because of the number of times her nose had been brok, lips swollen from being hit by the man she said she loves and the man that said he loves her.

One day she realized this man was not going change. She found a way to get out, thank God with her life. She said and I quote, “I may never taste of smell food again but thank God I am Alive”. I never forgot that show, nor her statement.

Many of us grew up in homes where our parents were constantly fighting. Many of us would lie in bed afraid, not knowing what to do. Afraid that the weaker parent would be killed or seriously injured.

We recall the Police being called, the stronger parent which is usually the culprit being ask to leave the house or simply given a slap on the wrist.

Many of you have witnessed a parent or guardian being killed. Abuse of any kind is wrong and has no place being associated with this very powerful word called "Love"

Women, you must understand that a man that can do these violent acts, can in no way possible love you…And, if this is love you don’t need it.


The Bible speaks plainly concerning love, and this is what it says…

GALATIANS-5: 22-23
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
Gentleness, self-control.

If you say you love this person in spite of his abuse, yet you are afraid of him. Let’s see what God says about fear and love.

1st John 4:18:
There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.

Please flee your abusive relationship before it is too late!!!

I hope you hear God’s voice in this…

Please note: Men if you are the ones being abused, then you too must find a way to get out of that abusive relationship...


Happy reading…