~Don’t Be Afraid~

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. What we fail to understand is that we are powerful beyond measure. 

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.  Meaning knowledge is truly powerful.

By nature we are accustom to darkness. Meaning we keep secrets, we fear or are concern what others think of us.

In a classroom setting many of us are even afraid of asking questions when we are confused or need something to be explain. This fear stems from not wanting to sound stupid in the eyes of others.

We must understand that knowledge is POWER!

Even, in God’s word He states … “My people are destroyed for a lack of knowledge”. (Hosea 4:6).

Are you afraid of knowledge? Are you afraid to be brilliant, gorgeous, attractive, talented and fabulous?

We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, attractive, talented, and fabulous?'

Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world, you or God!

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. And sometimes in love we hold back from giving ourselves fully in fear of being heart!

We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to be creative.

The world revolves around fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life. That is what will make the world and where we love and live a much better place!

Lastly, if you have a dream, a will or desire, there is only one thing that make these things impossible to achieve: And that The fear of failure.

Fear paralyzes the mind. Once that happens our will becomes thwarted and causes us to lose focus. 

God did not give us the spirit fear, but of Power, Love and a Sound (Positive) mind.

~If you share these thoughts, please feel free to leave your comments!

~A Simple Truth~

Whenever I'm ask is how I'm doing most times my reply is Super Duper.

I meet lots of people in town and whenever I travel. I was ask once by  a person  who knows me " hey Super Duper have you ever met a stranger?"

As I thought, my reply was "I don't know". I was ask this question because I was trying to encourage an older gentleman who was complaining on how bad his day was.

Now, what you are about to read is a conclusion from talking to a woman in Starbucks.

The relationship she was in appeared to be failing. From her view point the guy she was dating seemed to be insecure in their relationship.

She felt that he wanted to change her because of his constant questions. She stated that whenever they would talk she would be very careful to answer his questions because she felt as though he would analyze her every word.

She admitted that she was being hurt by him because of his desire and image of a perfect woman.

I didn't say much because I could tell that she desired and needed a listening ear and a compassionate heart to feel her pain.

So I listened... And she talked!

The she ask me what did I think: With hesitation I simply said to her ... "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to change or make you something or someone other than who you are is a great accomplishment".

I went on to say to her, 'If he refuses to except you for who you are, with all of your flaws and imperfections, then he is not the man you need in your life at the moment.

We smiled, chatted about the weather and the traffic and then I left to go meet someone.

What you are about to read is for all who are looking for perfection in your relationships.

Here is Deer in the headlight bulletin!!!

This is first to men and women you are not exempt. This is for you too.

~*******~

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. 

But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - neither are you, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. 

She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break -( her heart). 

So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. 

Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you sad or mad, and miss her when she's not there.

~Just love each other for who you are ... Except things you  cannot change~ 

*If you truly love each other*

Remember this: 

A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you for who you are!

So,  is it really difficult to be in love and be friends too?

That being said, we should take the time to apologize to those whom we've hurt, based on our words and actions.

...Your thoughts a very welcomed...

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