In love, a person can enter in like a thief and steal your heart. And you become a willing victim. You open up and let him or her see all the parts of you. Even the parts that are not so pretty. And because you love him or her, with every touch they surrender to you, they are able to fix every part of you that is hurting, even the ones that are not so pretty.
In our unawares we build our lives around the people we love and when they are gone we feel a sense of loneliness, emptiness, fear, doubt, etc. Sometimes we need the reassurance of a reason to keep going.
Then, there is the task of starting over again. We fail to realize that even in the mist of heartache and a sense of loss the heart is resilient. The hurt cause by a tragedy only bends our hearts, but it cannot break it. And, yes, you can learn to love again.
Sometimes we don't know the reason why things happen. Our minds run wild with thoughts. These thoughts are usually negative. But we must realize that there is a POSITIVE in everything.
Yes, the heart can be scared, but scars can heal and dissipate. The heart can and will heal and yes, you can learn to love again.
We hold hurt in, we hold back tears, we develop a sense of wanting to be alone. Anger and frustration can set in. But believe this please, Nothing is as bad as it seems!
Remember, in life tragedies happen. Most times we are not prepared to deal with them. Yet somehow there is an inner strength that surfaces. When this inner strength surface it is usually done in our unawares.
God has instilled in us a storage of inner strength. However, many never realize this until tragedy hits. Nonetheless, it is there.
Please remember this --- Your heart is just bent not broken. You can live and You can learn to love again.
Don't allow guilt to enter in your heart and mind...
My advice:
- Tell those you love, that you love them.
- Make time for them.
- Love them.
- Do your part.
"Life is a vapor. We are here today and gone tomorrow".
Why did I write this? Was there a need? Does it make sense to you?
These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours and your comments!!!
