There are so many things that are important in life. But, sometimes prioritizing those things can be very difficult. However, this is what I've come to understand; life is too short to waste any amount of time wondering what other people think about me. Besides, if they had better things going on in their own lives, they wouldn't have time sitting around talking about me.
Whats important to me, is not others' opinion of me, but my opinion of myself. Not being concerned of what others think of us, is very difficult sometimes. I guess its fair to say, the first things we learn are the hardest to forget.
However, the person in this life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Even, when you are with others, you are still with yourself, too! So, while other's opinions can affect us, my opinion of myself should matter most.
Our time here is limited, and no one should waste time living someone else's life. There is a term called dogma, which is actually living the result of other people's thinking. Remember, you have an inner voice, so don't let opinions of other's become so noisy until, it drown out your inner voice concerning you.
There is a God ordain purpose for each of us. And, if we listen closely to our own heart's desires, and have the courage to follow your own heart's intuition, immediately, I believe we will be A-ok. Remember, the term intuition means: The ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning.
~Simply my opinion ... I welcome your thoughts~
great article, BE!
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