I have lived long enough to understand this, yet men must not just understand what I'm about to say, but must be willing to except it and not be offended nor feel as though their manhood is in jeopardy.
A woman should be three things:
- Who she is.
- Who she wants to be.
- And, the woman and person God created her to be.
This is what I believe:
Women are very strong creatures created by God and are placed here to be a helpmate to man. I believe they are beautiful, sensual, strong and courageous.
Yet, some men see them as the weaker sex and impose their physical strength and dominance over them.
Sometimes, this dominance can create insecurities in women:
Some women are insecure of who they are because ignorant men have caused them to be this way. Women are treated as sex objects so often, until the weaker ones present themselves the way these men desire see them.
By doing so, they dress to flaunt this to hide that. They bleed because they are desperate to sell what men want. Desperate to be what they are not just to be loved and excepted by men.
I believe that men are a great part of the problem when it comes to a woman's self-esteem. If a woman dress shabbily men will remember the dress; if a woman dress impeccably or sexy men will remember the woman.
Man's fear can come true:
Guys ... A woman will stay in love with you for as long as you can keep her in love with the person she becomes when she is with you. Do you understand?
When she is with you and you make her feel like she is everything to you; make her feel like a queen, make her feel that she is the most special being on this earth; when she's in your presence she feels exuberant, refreshed, happy, complete and you can make her smile with thoughts when you are no where close to her. When you can accomplish this, you will have her love for a very long time. This is part nature of a woman.
My advice is this: Don't attempt to make her jealous of other women, but rather make other women jealous of her!
I thank God for women. They know how to express there feelings, they can articulate their vulnerabilities. Their weakness is their strength, There ability to feel and to express their feeling are their characteristics.
To top that all off, they have to contend with a man's emotions, put up with a man's demands and desires, his attitude, help build him up when he shows weakness, fear and insecurities and they can still express love.
What a great asset to man!!!
I sometimes wonder if a man can ever know the loneliness a woman knows. Especially when we fail to give her the respect she so truly deserves.
Women, don't compromise who you are. Yes, respect him. But, he must respect you as well, by allowing to be who you truly are. Why do I say this?
Well, God made man stronger but not necessarily more intelligent. He gave women intuition and femininity. And, used properly, that combination can easily shake up positively or cripple the brain of any man!
Women, use your God given strengths and intelligence without fear! Use rightly the tools God has equipped you with.
Lastly ... I believe a woman will give any man she loves strong follow-ship, if he provides strong leadership!
~These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours~
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