~You have a choice~

Sometimes we all feel not cared for. And when that happens it can either make us sad, or it can frustrate us. But I would like to share something with you, if you don't mind.

It's easy to feel not cared for when people aren't able to communicate and connect with you in the way you may need. And it can be so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth.

But the truth is, the way people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they are doing doesn't even crossed their mind. They are not inherently bad or uncaring -they are just busy and self-focused. And that's okay. It's not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part.

It doesn't make you unlovable or invisible. it just mean that those people aren't very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are, and  despite the darkness you feel, you have the ability to share your love and light with others is a strength. your work isn't to change who you are, it is to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. You are not too sensitive or too needy. You are thoughtful and empathetic. You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyone's acknowledgement or affection, you are enough.

Moving forward. Sometimes when we are overwhelmed with emotions we tend to become isolated, impatient, irritable, anti-sociable.  

The great news is, God knows everything about you. Both good and bad, and He still loves you unconditionally.

Remember you have choices:

• You choose to give away your love.
• You choose to have a broken heart.
• You choose to give up.
• You choose to hang on.
• You choose to react.
• You choose to feel insecure.
• You choose to feel anger.
• You choose to fight back.
• You choose to have or not have hope.

Lastly: "The only disability in life is a bad attitude."

~I hope this makes sense to you~

~These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours~