~A Simple Truth~

Whenever I'm ask is how I'm doing most times my reply is Super Duper.

I meet lots of people in town and whenever I travel. I was ask once by  a person  who knows me " hey Super Duper have you ever met a stranger?"

As I thought, my reply was "I don't know". I was ask this question because I was trying to encourage an older gentleman who was complaining on how bad his day was.

Now, what you are about to read is a conclusion from talking to a woman in Starbucks.

The relationship she was in appeared to be failing. From her view point the guy she was dating seemed to be insecure in their relationship.

She felt that he wanted to change her because of his constant questions. She stated that whenever they would talk she would be very careful to answer his questions because she felt as though he would analyze her every word.

She admitted that she was being hurt by him because of his desire and image of a perfect woman.

I didn't say much because I could tell that she desired and needed a listening ear and a compassionate heart to feel her pain.

So I listened... And she talked!

The she ask me what did I think: With hesitation I simply said to her ... "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to change or make you something or someone other than who you are is a great accomplishment".

I went on to say to her, 'If he refuses to except you for who you are, with all of your flaws and imperfections, then he is not the man you need in your life at the moment.

We smiled, chatted about the weather and the traffic and then I left to go meet someone.

What you are about to read is for all who are looking for perfection in your relationships.

Here is Deer in the headlight bulletin!!!

This is first to men and women you are not exempt. This is for you too.

~*******~

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. 

But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - neither are you, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. 

She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break -( her heart). 

So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. 

Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you sad or mad, and miss her when she's not there.

~Just love each other for who you are ... Except things you  cannot change~ 

*If you truly love each other*

Remember this: 

A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you for who you are!

So,  is it really difficult to be in love and be friends too?

That being said, we should take the time to apologize to those whom we've hurt, based on our words and actions.

...Your thoughts a very welcomed...

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